Children benefits when both fathers and mothers are active players in parenting. But the long working hours and the increase in the number of mothers working outside the home create new challenges for today’s parents. Fortunately, mothers seem to know instinctively the needs of the children but it is usually not so for fathers. Though we have some ideas of the roles and responsibilities of a father but our society as a whole does not really have a clear idea what it represent. This talk helps parents to appreciate the impact of fathering on our children, and what we can do to give our children the ‘fathering’ advantage in our busy fast paced world.